You survived the experience, but something changed. Now, when someone offers genuine kindness, you question their motives. When someone expresses affection, you wonder what they really want. When someone makes a mistake, you immediately assume the worst because you've seen how badly things can end.

With her anniversary arriving November 9, we're exploring her complicated origins, connections to HYDRA, superhero accomplishments, motherhood, animated adventures and remarkable legacy. Because Jessica Drew demonstrates something worth remembering: Your past may explain where you've been, but it doesn't have the authority to decide who you become.

You still know the vision mattered, but you no longer have the energy to chase it. You once prayed passionately, planned carefully, worked hard and believed boldly, but after enough delays, setbacks, losses or unanswered questions, something inside you became quiet.